Today, I woke up to a missed call from my grandmother.
I was too tired to answer at the time, so I clicked the end call button and said I would call back later.
When I did, my little sister answered the phone. It was strange because I was expecting to hear my grandmother’s voice. Then my sister told me that it had actually been her who called me earlier, so I asked her what she wanted.
“So, tell me about this engagement.”
I blinked, confused. Tell her what? My sister had been there; she knew what went down that day.
“Why…?” I asked.
“Cuz I don’t know what’s going on,” she said.
I called her out. “What are you talking about, you were there the whole time.”
“Yeah, but like, you guys said you were going to talk about it and let everyone know what you decide.”
I didn’t expect her to be this interested in it. In any case I went ahead and told her exactly what I’d been telling everyone else who had asked me the same question.
“Well, we’ve decided to just keep doing what we were planning on doing. We’re still aiming for 2018 so that gives us over two years to work on some of the things people were concerned about. I’m still applying to grad school so none of that’s changed…”
I’m supposed to be practicing reticence, not trying to tell people all of my business, and the only reason I kept talking was because its stuff I had already told her or someone else anyway. Still, I figured it would be best for me to shut up now, so I stopped talking long before I would have normally.
“Okay, so are you gonna redo it?”
Then, the alarm bells started ringing. Continue reading →